Dose of Depth
This is Dose of Depth podcast. I’m your host, Deborah Lukovich, and I invite you to be curious about your unique experience of being human. In this podcast, we’ll explore the deeper meaning of ordinary life experiences through conversation, stories, and education. You might have a serious ah-ha moment, or you might be amused by the movie your life seems to be imitating, or you might just be entertained by one of my awkward stories. I’m hoping you’ll become more aware of those moments when a deeper part of you is prompting you to see things differently and maybe even go a new direction. So, let’s get started. Deborah
Dose of Depth
When Being Attracted to Someone Catches You Off Guard
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Ever find yourself attracted to someone you shouldn’t be attracted to
especially when you’re already in a relationship?
What if that attraction isn’t a threat…but a message?
In this short video, I explore how attraction often points to something your unconscious is asking you to develop, reclaim, or live more fully. Instead of acting on attraction or suppressing it, I suggest lingering with it and listening for what wants to be known.
I share personal examples of being intensely drawn to people who were unavailable and how, once I understood what I was really attracted to, their literal pull dissolved. What remained was desire for essence: creativity, authority, justice, devotion to purpose.
When we pursue those qualities in our own lives, attraction often transforms.
🔗 Learn more through my 3P’s Framework for uncovering the hidden meaning of attraction: https://www.deborahlukovich.com/post/still-stewing-about-the-last-fight-with-your-romantic-partner
📖 Read my article: When Is Sexual Attraction Not About Sex?: https://www.deborahlukovich.com/post/when-is-sexual-attraction-not-about-sex
📘 My memoir brings these ideas to life through lived experience. Learn more here: https://www.deborahlukovich.com/whensexmeetsgod
Attraction doesn’t always ask for action.
Sometimes it asks for integration.
Dr. Deborah Lukovich
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